Holiday Gift-Giving Etiquette You Should Know

I recently came across a video on TikTok about how a girl broke-up with her boyfriend after 48 hours into the relationship. Why? Bad gift giving. Yep, that’s right. In the video, Kaitlin Mackie, says she got tickets to a Commanders game for Christmas despite the fact she doesn’t like sports. Essentially, that gift was for him and not her. So how can you become a better gift-giver? Let’s break down the essentials of gift-giving etiquette to ensure you don’t wind up in this sloppy situation.

1. Be Thoughtful, Not Extravagant

The best gifts aren’t necessarily the most expensive but the most thoughtful. Consider the recipient’s interests, needs, and personality – not yours like the story above. A meaningful book, a personalized item, or even a heartfelt handwritten note can make a lasting impression. Setting a budget is also wise; holidays shouldn’t lead to financial strain.

2. Consider Cultural and Personal Preferences

Not everyone celebrates the holidays in the same way. When giving gifts, be sensitive to cultural norms, dietary restrictions, or personal values. For example, some may prefer experiences over material gifts or opt for sustainable and eco-friendly options.

3. The Workplace Gifting Guide

When exchanging gifts at work, keep it professional. Avoid overly personal items and stay within the agreed-upon budget if participating in Secret Santa or similar activities. If you’re gifting a boss or colleague individually, ensure it’s appropriate for the workplace setting. A thoughtful card or a small token, like gourmet treats or a desk accessory, often strikes the right balance.

4. What to Do If You Receive an Unexpected Gift

It happens: a friend or colleague hands you a beautifully wrapped package, and you realize you didn’t get them anything. Don’t panic! Accept the gift graciously and express your gratitude. A follow-up gesture, like a thank-you card or a small token, can show your appreciation.

5. Wrapping and Presentation Matter

The presentation of a gift adds to the experience. Take time to wrap your gifts neatly, adding a personal touch with a handwritten note or creative ribbon. If you’re short on time, consider reusable gift bags or eco-friendly wrapping alternatives, such as fabric or recycled paper.

6. Host and Hostess Gifts

When attending holiday parties, it’s polite to bring a small token for the host or hostess. Think along the lines of a bottle of wine, a festive candle, or a gourmet treat. These gestures show appreciation for their hospitality without putting undue pressure on either side.

7. Don’t Forget the Kids!

If you’re shopping for children, consult their parents to avoid duplicate or inappropriate gifts. Opt for items that align with the child’s age, interests, and household rules. Experiences, like tickets to a zoo or a fun activity, are often as appreciated as toys.

8. The Etiquette of Regifting

Regifting can be a touchy subject, but it’s perfectly acceptable if done thoughtfully. Only regift items that are brand new and in excellent condition. Ensure the original giver and the new recipient are in different social circles to avoid awkwardness.

9. Timing Is Key

Try to give gifts in person whenever possible, as it enhances the emotional connection. If you’re mailing gifts, ship them early to avoid delays. A late gift is still appreciated, but planning ahead shows extra care.

10. Keep the Spirit Alive

At the heart of holiday gift-giving is the spirit of kindness and connection. Avoid comparing gifts, overthinking reciprocation, or stressing about perfection. Your intention and effort are what matter most.

Final Thoughts on Gift-Giving Etiquette

Holiday gift-giving etiquette isn’t about rigid rules but creating moments of joy and appreciation. By focusing on thoughtfulness, cultural sensitivity, and graciousness, you can make your holiday season a truly memorable one.

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Happy gifting! 🎁

Wishing you peace and love.

-Belkis